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1. Not living in the moment

2. Believing everything is my fault

3. Thinking that past failure means no chance for future success

4. Hating myself for not being perfect

5. People that don’t give me the time of day

6. Wanting a relationship instead of wanting a good person who loves me back

7. Pleasing people in ways that are counter to my higher impulses

8. Giving in to bad habits because I’m afraid that if I try to change them, I’ll fail

9. Telling myself I’m not good enough

10. Not going after what I want because I’m afraid of failure, disapproval, and change

11. Being mean to myself

12. Accepting the disrespect of others.

13. Not being happy regardless of my circumstances