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Yes, there is such thing as a meaningful relationship that does not last forever or aspire to. Love isn’t forever or never, it’s now.  It comes in many colors, shades, and levels of brilliance. You have to try a few gems on before you find the one that fits you, at the moment. And just because it doesn’t fit now doesn’t mean it will never fit, and just because it fits now it doesn’t mean that it will always fit. Even your memories aren’t certain- what seemed bright and sparkling can become dark and grim.  But what is certain, that I believe au fond of my heart, is that it is a quest worth taking. The tears are worth crying, the smiles worth smiling. And there is love, whether you have got a ring on your finger or not.  There is love, you may not see it but others feel it, love for yourself in your soul.